This is specifically for my formspring, but I have to post here and then link it b/c I have a bit to say.
I won’t pretend to know everything that is going on b/c I don’t..but what I see on my formspring is getting ridiculous..it’s why I have been staying away from the site. Beside the fact that I have a lot of personal things going on.
Now a while back I said I was staying out of the drama, and I have. I have not been going back and forth with anyone or spreading things that I “hear”. When I was doing all that, it was exhausting emotionally and mentally!! I was putting more stress on myself than I needed AND I was becoming an angry person. It was consuming me. Why do people do this to themselves?
AND WHY do people say “I’m done with the drama, I’m so over this, I am going to change” but continue to keep the shit going? And why are others in it? Do you know the situation FIRST HAND, or are you only getting hearsay, one side of the story? How do you know who to believe and why do you want to be in it in the first place? There are ALWAYS two sides.
Does anyone really realize the stress and anguish you can cause someone simply by being hurtful on the internet? People can say “oh it’s just the internet” or “it’s just words”… but you know what? It still hurts…
I will say something to someone specific… Carly… you know I care about you and I have never had a problem with you and I think you are a great person, a strong person…and I can’t wait to meet you when you get to Stewart.. my concern is your pregnancy… I understand you have had “problems” in the past with pregnancy and I’m sorry, I can’t imagine that. What if all this blows up and turns around on you again.. you KNOW it is stressful and hurtful… that is NOT good for your pregnancy..any un-needed stress should be avoided.
For everyone, can’t you think of more positive things to do? I know I can. I have. And thank God I did b/c I would crumble going through what I’m going through right now.
This shit is petty and ridiculous.